I appreciate the comment, which I take as a great compliment.
My concern is that boy’s night is fun time. This is serious time. My wife and I were discussing, she asked what I would do if the child didn’t react or said something like “Papa, when are you losing your hair yet?”
That doesn’t seem bad to me. I just don’t want to scare him or get him crying.
As per the book, my son loves book time with Mom and Dad. It’s just seems like a very effective way to communicate to him. Especially since it’s about someone else.
My child just started kindergarten. As far as I can tell, it's wonderful and is the best place for him.
We're just... people of means. We've saved _a lot_ of money compared to the private schools we were considering.
I just don't want this to be inappropriate. We'll give to all the standard pta / school fundraisers and already do the wishlist and extra school supplies requests.
I'm still selfish. I do want plenty of it to benefit my child. Appropriately though.
I just also want to make sure that the (kindergarten) teachers can get pizza and beer or whatever without it seeming like bribery.
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I appreciate the answer, but everything I’ve read is counter to your suggestions.
Do you have any experience with this, or are you just guessing?