What middle school and high school do the kids from that elementary school go to? Learn about those schools.

Most elementary schools are good if you spend a little time there - be involved, volunteer if you can, get to know the staff. Unless there’s a violence issue there or if your kiddo needs a special program, look more at the high school feeder pattern than the elementary ratings. See what class offerings or magnet programs they offer. Will your kids want to learn Russian or go into a medical/vet program? Or will they be happy with Spanish and yearbook?

Keep expectations low. You don’t have to take your 1 year old to Disney. Attention span is short, so keep it cheap. They’re fine doing the same things they do at home, but in other places. Anything different is cool. This McDonald’s has a better playground. The giraffes at our zoo are bigger. This library has fluffier chairs. The silde at our playground is higher. Also, you don’t have to take your kids on every vacation. It’s ok to leave them with family or friend to have time away.

Playing near other kids comes before playing with other kids. Even if he’s playing ball or playground or going for a walk with you while being around other kids, he’s still learning.