He’s also an expert baby appraiser:
You know in your heart if you really want kids.
You know in your head whether you’re in the right situation to raise them.
Don’t have kids unless both you and your partner definitely want them. If you both really want kids, ask yourselves whether now is the right time or if there’s something you should wait for first, like career, housing, finances etc.
California, universal school lunch. Suburban district with ~1200 students across 3 elementary schools.