Disclaimer: I don’t have kids. Feel free to ignore.

As far as I know, this is not that rare. Maybe you could go a more practical route. It’s not obligatory to have lots of instincts kick in, but it is expected that you take care of the kid. It is however likely that after a while that you’ll get some neat experiences with the kid. Funny episodes. After a while they might even turn into a good friend.

Anyway. Hats off to you. Good luck