I’ve never understood why that is such a universally difficult task for children. Usually not so much the physical action but just the attention span required to find them and get them on their feet. They seem to do other similar tasks without much issue but the shoes are a guaranteed slowdown every time.

Stop with the helicopter parenting. No one is drowning in a shower pan you knob.

Others have said what I would have said better so I won’t say much, but I didn’t think upvotes were enough so I will say that there’s nothing wrong with you for feeling the way you do. You’re not alone and things do get better, even if better ends up meaning something different than you were expecting.