At this stage, truly and seriously be glad and grateful for those long sleeps and naps.
I had a ton of trouble with milk, and my baby had absolutely no interest in latching, so we did bottles supplemented with formula from day 1. There’s a perk to using the bottle, in that you, the non-nursing partner get that good 1 on 1 feeding time too. Mama can sleep and pump on her schedule, not baby’s. Consider it a blessing. If kiddo is feeding and gaining weight, you’re doing it right. As others said, fed is best.
For the first four months babies are basically Sims with four “needs” bars. They cry if they’re hungry, need to burp or their tummy is upset, if they’re lonely or if they’re dirty. They make pretty distinct faces and signals you can follow to see what they need, and you’ll get to know your kid and what those signals look like.
As far as having a smart kiddo, I recommend you try teaching them simple sign language. We started teaching our kid signs for things when he was about 5 months old, like “more”, “hungry”, “thirsty” etc and he picked up on it and started using his own signs and sounds to communicate with us when he was about 8-10 months old. It was invaluable to be able to understand and communicate with him and helped us bond and build trust very early.
There’s a lot of guff and hot air about how to make your baby smarter, but one thing that’s been consistently proven to give positive results is reading to them. Read to them from day 1 whenever you have the opportunity. Its good bonding time and they learn so much from hearing an illustrated story. My kid and I used to play “find the x” style games with the pictures on the page and he showed me he knew what an armadillo was, or a combine harvester was before he was 2, because he could point to the appropriate pictures. I never dumbed down or lessen my vocabulary with him either, and he’s proven that he’s a sponge for words.
Book recommendations:
How to speak so children will listen, and how to listen so children will speak. Some parts are dated but there are some extremely valuable tips and ideas in there too
Precious Little Sleep, Zubief, it’s a very relatable read for helping sleep train your baby when you get to that point.
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At this stage, truly and seriously be glad and grateful for those long sleeps and naps.
I had a ton of trouble with milk, and my baby had absolutely no interest in latching, so we did bottles supplemented with formula from day 1. There’s a perk to using the bottle, in that you, the non-nursing partner get that good 1 on 1 feeding time too. Mama can sleep and pump on her schedule, not baby’s. Consider it a blessing. If kiddo is feeding and gaining weight, you’re doing it right. As others said, fed is best.
For the first four months babies are basically Sims with four “needs” bars. They cry if they’re hungry, need to burp or their tummy is upset, if they’re lonely or if they’re dirty. They make pretty distinct faces and signals you can follow to see what they need, and you’ll get to know your kid and what those signals look like.
As far as having a smart kiddo, I recommend you try teaching them simple sign language. We started teaching our kid signs for things when he was about 5 months old, like “more”, “hungry”, “thirsty” etc and he picked up on it and started using his own signs and sounds to communicate with us when he was about 8-10 months old. It was invaluable to be able to understand and communicate with him and helped us bond and build trust very early.
There’s a lot of guff and hot air about how to make your baby smarter, but one thing that’s been consistently proven to give positive results is reading to them. Read to them from day 1 whenever you have the opportunity. Its good bonding time and they learn so much from hearing an illustrated story. My kid and I used to play “find the x” style games with the pictures on the page and he showed me he knew what an armadillo was, or a combine harvester was before he was 2, because he could point to the appropriate pictures. I never dumbed down or lessen my vocabulary with him either, and he’s proven that he’s a sponge for words.
Book recommendations:
How to speak so children will listen, and how to listen so children will speak. Some parts are dated but there are some extremely valuable tips and ideas in there too
Precious Little Sleep, Zubief, it’s a very relatable read for helping sleep train your baby when you get to that point.